Apa selepas 28 Julai?

Pada 28hb Julai 2011, berlangsung  perlawanan bola sepak kelayakan Piala Dunia Brazil 2014 di antara Malaysia menentang Singapura yang berkesudahan seri 1-1. Dengan ini, impian untuk mara ke peringkat kumpulan lebur di tanah sendiri. 

Bheng bersama di stadium tempoh hari, menyaksikan perlawanan tersebut. Stadium tidak penuh, tetapi “over-flow”.  Bheng menonton dari sudut-sudut di tepi stadium kerana terlalu ramai dan tidak dapat masuk pun ke tempat duduk. Bheng and 2 rakan lagi hanya dapat “view” setengah padang dari sudut tersebut. Bermakna, apa-apa yang berlaku di separuh lagi padang, kami tidak tahu langsung.Tetapi, tidak mengapa, keranamu Malaysia. 

Setelah Malaysia menjaringkan gol menerusi Safee Sali, Bheng telah dapat merasakan yang kita boleh mengalahkan Singapura dengan  2 gol. Setelah itu, Singapura memperlahankan rentak permainan kita dengan lakonan-lakonan yang tidak sepatutnya terjadi dalam permainan bola sepak moden. Kemudian, Singapura menjaringkan gol, menyamakan kedudukan 1-1. Selepas jaringan tersebut, pasukan Negara bagaikan hilang terus semangat sehingga melakukan kesilapan yang mudah. 

“Main bola dah bertahun-tahun.  ‘Passing’ pon tak betul nie macam mana?” keluh seorang remaja dalam kumpulan yang berhampiran. 

“Ni macam mana? Tunggu tiket punya lah lama. Tak kan nak balik dengan hampa kot? ‘Come on’ lah wehy” seorang lagi sahut. 

Kemudian, perlawanan tamat. Bheng sendiri kecewa degan keputusan. Nasib Bheng lebih kurang dengan mereka. Hari Selasa datang ke Bukit Jalil hendak beli tiket. Tunggu 2 jam lebih, kemudian tiket habis. Pagi Rabu dekat 7.30 pagi sudah ada kat Bukit Jalil hendak beli tiket. Terkejut melihat barisan beratur sampai ke tangga selepas Bheng turun dari stesen LRT. Tunggu selama 3 jam lebih, dapat juga akhirnya beli tiket. Datang stadium pada hari perlawanan, tidak dapat ‘view’ yang baik. Kecewa,kecewa sangat. Bheng kecewa sangat sampai telah membuat keputusan untuk tidak datang ke stadium lagi selepas ini. 

“Bro, pinjam ‘lighter’ boleh? “ Tanya seorang brader dalam lingkungan 25 tahun kepada bheng. bheng pun beri permetik api kepada brader itu. 

“Sedih la bro. Aku dari Kulim nie. Tunggun punya la lama nak beli tiket. Main kat tempat kita pun boleh kalah ke, tempat die kite sumbat 3.Tempat kita, xkan la 2 pon payah kot?” 

Bheng langsung tidak tertarik dengan apa yang brader itu cakap. Perkara yang menarik Bheng adalah baju yang dipakai oleh brader itu. Baju biru yang mempunyai logo Harimau Malaya dengan tertera tulisan:

"IF YOU FEEL ASHAMED TO STAND BY YOUR COLOURS, YOU BETTER SEEK FOR ANOTHER FLAG" 

Selepas membaca ayat tersebut, Bheng diamkan diri. bheng fikir seketika.  Harimau Malaya ini pasukan kita,mewakili kita. Kenapa Bheng ambil keputusan untuk tidak datang ke stadium lagi memberikan sokongan? Memang Bheng rasa amat kecewa tetapi pasukan yang bermain pada hari tersebut merupakan pemain yang terbaik yang kita miliki. Takkan kita hendak ‘import’ pemain luar? Balik ke rumah, Bheng tengok highlights video di http://www.youtube.com/.  Khairul Fahmi merupakan wira kita. Jika beliau tiada, sudah pasti kita akan lebih dimalukan di halaman sendiri. Bheng sendiri rasa bersalah kerana underestimate beliau sebelum ini.

 

Jadi, apa selepas 28 Julai? Semuanya sudah berakhir? Tidak. Kita masih mempunyai kelayakan Olimpik. Masih ada lagi peluang untuk kembalikan maruah bola sepak Negara . Tetapi, peluang untuk ke Piala Dunia sudah berakhir. Kita perlu menanti sehingga Piala Dunia 2018 dan pada ketika itu Safee Sali akan berusia 34 tahun. Sudah pasti pemain yang ada sekarang akan dirombak untuk kejohanan pada masa akan datang.

Bheng sudah membuat keputusan yang Bheng akan menyokong skuad Harimau Malaya di kelayakan Olimpik nanti kerana “ I AM PROUD WITH MY COLOURS” .  Kepada Singapura, semoga berjaya di pusingan kumpulan nanti dan diharap bermain dengan semangat kesukanan yang tinggi.

MALAYSIA IS OUR COUNTRY,

HARIMAU MALAYA IS OUR TEAM,

HITAM KUNING IS OUR COLOUR.

THIS IS OUR LAND,

THIS IS OUR TEAM.

By bhengbros@bheng

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Is Osama bin Laden really dead?

Osama bin Laden the leader of the al-Qaeda network is known to be the most wanted terrorist in the world. But, there are many conspiracy theories linking Osama associating to the US government. For an instance, Osama was known to be a CIA agent with the name of Tim Laden. The whole reason of the attack on the World Trade Centre is to link Osama as the culprit and he was claimed to be hiding in Afghanistan. Why Afghanistan? It is simply to steal their oil for stockpiling as oil is one of the basic necessities in the current world.

There is also an incident where Osama was found to be admitted in a hospital in India for kidney-related problems and he was also approached by the CIA agents but was not caught. This news spread wide throughout the European nations but never told in the USA. Why is it so? And why he wasn't caught?

Some rumours claim that Osama has died of chronic illness in 2006 but his name is lifted for political mileage by the US officials. But why only on the 2nd of May 2011, the US government has officially announced the death of Osama? At the time, the was unrest in Middle East and the Pakistan government was purposely not informed of the secret ambush on Osama. This is to cause outrage between Pakistan and the US government, thus the US army could invade Pakistan and slowly take over the Middle East countries. Another theory says that the al-Qaeda network will be more rebellious and will move more aggressively with the news of the demise of Osama. This will be an added advantage for the US army to invade the main hubs of the terrorist groups and to finally conquer the Middle East region.

If you still think these are all just mere hoax and people just love to create rumours for their own interests, why photos of Osama's assassination is not revealed till now? And why his body being dropped into the North Arabian Sea and not buried in the Islamic way? Is this a cover-up? Is this done purposely to outrage the Muslims? It is for you to find out!

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The Oslo Massacre

The Oslo's massacre isn't an Islamist, as many suspected, but a homegrown extremist looking to hit hard at Islam

Norwegian Anders Behring Breivik was formally charged Monday for back-to-back attacks in Norway that killed at least 93 people. Several news outlets had speculated that al Qaeda was behind the Friday bombing of a government building in downtown Oslo and shooting spree at a youth camp on the island of Utoya. But investigators say Breivik, who has confessed to the crimes, is driven not by sympathy for Islamists, but hatred of them. Here, a brief guide to the extremist, anti-Muslim tide that is rising in Norway and elsewhere in Europe:

Who is Anders Behring Breivik?
He's a 32-year-old nationalist angered by the rise of multiculturalism in Norway. In a 1,500-page manifesto posted online — under the pseudonym Andrew Berwick — hours before the attacks, he vents his rage against "cultural Marxism," Islam, and feminism in Europe. Investigators say Breivik had planned Friday's attacks for years, hoping to use them as a declaration of war against the "Islamization of Western Europe."

Is he just an isolated extremist?
No, Breivik's xenophobia is shared by extreme-right activists and politicians across the region. His anti-Muslim, anti-immigrant manifesto echoes "a sentiment you find in all European countries," said Thomas Hegghammer, of the Norwegian Defense Research Establishment in Oslo, as quoted in The Wall Street Journal. From Sweden to Italy, populist politicians have gained newfound power by lashing out against Muslim immigrants, whom they say cause crime and unemployment while rejecting Western values.

How bad is Norway's immigration problem?
Not bad at all. It welcomes far fewer immigrants than many other European countries. Though the conservative, populist Progress Party, which takes a hard line on any immigration, has doubled its membership in recent years, Norway still doesn't have a mainstream far-right political party, unlike other Scandinavian countries. And thanks in part to its oil wealth — Norway has a sovereign wealth fund worth $112,000 per citizen — Norway is one of the world's richest countries, with high wages and only 3.4 percent unemployment.

Is Breivik a member of the Progress Party?
He was, until 2007. In his manifesto, Breivik praises the Progress Party as "the only major political party in Norway that has voiced any serious opposition to the madness of Muslim immigration." (Progress Party officials harshly condemned the attacks, calling them "horrible and cowardly.") These days, Breivik says his only allegiance is as a "Justiciar Knight" in a re-founded Knights Templar group, the pan-European "Conservative Revolutionary Movements in Europe."

What did he allegedly hope to accomplish?
The manifesto says the group's purpose is to "seize political and military control of Western European countries and implement a cultural conservative political agenda." It advocates attacks against "traitors" — the youth camp where the massacre occurred was an annual gathering of young members of the liberal Labor Party. Breivik apparently believes that people with pro-immigrant politics are helping Muslims take over Europe. Breivik's lawyer, Geir Lippestad, says his client has "admitted his guilt to the actual facts," and has called his own actions "atrocious" but "necessary." Lippestad said Breivik was going to explain further in court, but the judge held a closed-door hearing to deny him the public platform he wanted.




Sources: ABC News, Christian Science Monitor, CNN, Foreign Policy, Wall St. Journal

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Avira Personal : How to get WebGuard without installing Ask Toolbar? [SOLVED]

Hello there readers, well today I'm going to be talking about this worthy piece of software which I have been using for almost 5 years now. I will be providing a guide on how to stop a new feature that has been implemented in new version of Avira Personal which prompts its user to install the Safe Search provided by the Ask Toolbar in collaboration with Avira. So the objective of this guide is to obtain the WebGuard enabled without installing the unnecessary AskToolbar. Personally, I feel Avira Personal (Freeware) is pretty much good security for my system and I don't wish to stop using it because of unnecessary softwares that comes bundled with it. First of all before I begin this guide, I would like to mention that I hold no credits for this solution as I only found it in a forum recently and decided to post this here and share with you guys. All the best!!!
PROBLEM :

This annoying pop up message keeps showing up every time I startup my PC.

SOLUTION:
* I expect that you have installed Avira before following up with this guide.
* You do not have to type the extra "" shown in the instruction.

1.  At your desktop screen, press "Windows key+R". This will open up Run.
2. Type in "regedit" and click "OK". This will open up the Registry window. 

3. Once the Registry Editor window is open, you would be able to see Computer with 5 root folders namely the HKEY folders shown below.
 
4. First open up the "HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE" and then the "SOFTWARE" folder. This is where the registry values for your installed application is stored. 

5. Alright, so what you are about to do now is to create a registry value to trick Avira into believing that you have actually installed the safe search by AskToolbar. The results will be: You will never ever be prompted to install the safe search feature,no unnecessary toolbar installed and last but not least, Avira's webguard will be enabled all together. Hooray!!! So lets get to work..
6. First, create a new folder named "AskToolbar" by right clicking on "SOFTWARE" folder and select new key.
7. Then, create a folder named "Macro" inside the AskToolbar  by right clicking on AskToolbar folder and select new key. By know you should have come up with something looking like this:

8. Now to add the registry value, right click on Macro folder that you have created and create a new String value and name it as "tb"
9. Then double click on the tb file to open up an input message box and insert "AVR-W1" into the Value Data text field like shown below:

10. Click "OK" and close the Registry Editor window.
11. Now go to Uninstall Programs in the Control Panel.
12. Look for Avira AntiVir Personal -Free Edition in the Uninstall program list and select it. Note: Please do not uninstall the software, just select it and select "Change" instead of "Uninstall".
13. Select "Modify" and click next. You will be prompt with a list of Avira components which have already been selected automatically. Just click next and proceed with the Configuration setup and you are done.

Note: If Avira prompts you to still install SearchFree Toolbar after clicking next, then you might have done something wrong in the earlier steps. Try looking it up and repeating the steps. IMPORTANT: If you have already installed the Toolbar prior to following this guide, ensure that you first disable the WebGuard and then uninstall the toolbar.

 

CREDITS:

Raymond from www.raymond.cc
 

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Orbit Downloader : Disable Software Update [SOLVED]

Okay first of all to those only seeking for the solution on disabling the Software Update feature please scroll to the SOLUTION section below. Alright where was I, yes the Orbit Downloader ,have you heard of  it before. Orbit Downloader is a rich media download manager just like those commercial downloaders for example, DAP(Download Accelerator Plus), IDM(Internet Download Manager), Flashget and ect. The only difference is Orbit Downloader is a freeware, yes totally free, which means no hard time patching licence and time wasted on finding keygen bla bla bla...This also means less getting attacked by malwares and spywares in fake keygen downloads.
            The reason to love Orbit Downloader is the same reason why everyone goes crazy over IDM and DAP. For me, I just don't see why people are so into these download managers. I believe most of the users are fooled by false statements these download managers often brag about such as "Boosts dl speed by x400 and x500" which is pretty much absurd and damn right unbelievable. The truth is,all those softwares are plain download managers, in other terms,it onsly manage your downloads. There will be no boosting of download speed, only stable download speed provided(dl speed depends on ISP). So if your running a 1MB cable your limit is just that.
            So, what is this topic all about: it is about an annoying feature Software Updater in Orbit Downloader that has been about sometime now. The Software Updater is a feature that scans your machine for software details and when online,gets information on new updates and new upgrades for your software. The process of getting the software details normally takes up 25-50% of the CPU usage,furthermore the results are often far beyond correct. The good news about this is, there is an option to disable this feature, but the BAD news is the option does not work at all. Kinda funny how the development team did not come up with the solution even after a couple of new versions being released.

DOWNLOADS:
Try the latest version of OrbitDownloader today. The richmedia downloader used to download from Youtube videos to almost anything on the web with a click of a button. 

SOLUTION:
This is reeally simple. All you need to do is go to the directory where you installed your OrbitDownloader. Most probably C:\Program Files\Orbitdownloader. In the directory, look for SoftUpdater.dll and either rename it or just delete it. You are done. Orbit will run perfectly like it always does.

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Windows 7 WGA Alert!!! Help me...!!! [SOLVED]

Good day everyone, before continuing any further I would highlight this post as a solution to all Windows platform owners who are aware that they are using pirated copy of Windows operating system and would like to remove the annoying WGA alert showing currrently on your machine. If you find yourself in this post and probably thinking "I have genuine Windows that I bought from a retailer, but I keep getting the WGA alert", then I'm sorry but I'm afraid that you are a victim of counterfeit software, so please return your product to the retailer and ask for a refund or simply make a complaint to Microsoft Inc.

           So what is this WGA thingy? WGA (Windows Genuine Advantage) is a just another anti-piracy system that Microsoft Inc. came up with to ensure every bit of penny returns to Microsoft. It is an online activation of your Windows OS product just like many other major software companies for example Adobe and Autodesk. Fortunately ever since Microsoft came up with this new system back in XP SP3, clever minds have put their efforts in creating the WGA Remover aka WAT(Windows Activation Technology) in certain circumstances. Below is the link to the latest version WGA Remover 2011 that came off as a result of the new Windows 7 Service pack 1.

Download WGA remover 2011: Windows Loader by Daz

Instructions

1. Download the file above.
2. Extract the .zip file 
3. Open the Windows Loader application
4. Click Install
5. Wait for about 1min and restart when the message prompts you to do so.
6. Wala the WGA alert is gone! Enjoy

*To extract the .zip file you would require an archive tool like winRAR,winzip or 7z.
*7z is free and works just as good as the commercial tools. To download 7z, click here.

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How far can you go for love?

She sits at the front seat in the class. She's just another diligent classmate and just like other typical girls who does all her homework. And ya we guys grab her book to finish up our works at last minutes. That's how things were until this one day I came across her with a another friend of mine. There was a sudden change on her face, she was the most beautiful thing I've ever seen then. She had this smile, I couldn't take my eyes of her and right then I decided she is the ONE. So how far am I willing to go for her?

A firefly flew by her side and she shined throughout the moment. At that moment I saw that smile again, I wonder why. As she disclosed to me she has never seen a firefly throughout her life and right then I decided  it's time to hunt some fireflies. All I wanted was to see that smile again but I didn't know it will take me miles away. I walked by the park, explored the swamp and walked through the forest. It took me 4 days to find a perfect spot where fireflies exist. And finally I cherished the moment by showing her the glow of victory that enlighten my darkness. She saw those fireflies, I can see those eyes were so mesmerized and there I saw her smile which brought heaven to earth. I caught one of those firefly and let her touch it, I could see she was at the top of the world. I remember those lips thanking me instead I have to thank her for giving me that moment. I turned into an Entomologist for HER I guess.

Then there was this day, and we were watching a Korean Drama. And there was this particular scene which shows meteor shower. She expressed she always wanted to see a meteor shower. And there falls an obligation on my shoulder, I need to show her meteor shower somehow. But how? I thought we cant see those things here in Malaysia and we need more tools in order to view it. So I made some research. Thanks to human's best creation; Google I came across this information about Perseids Meteor Shower which falls on 12 August. It can be seen during the dark hours before dawn with bare eyes perhaps one or two every minute. Hence I packed some necessities and brought her to the top of a hill on that night and waited. She fell asleep but I waited. Right then i couldn't believe my own eyes, I saw the first one myself. I woke her up and her drowsiness vanished just like that after seeing her first glowing rock from sky. Then there it is a meteor shower falls like rain, I was sitting by the woman I love looking at the beauty of nature. I saw that happy face of hers so adorable just like baby reacts when it got it's first footstep. At that moment only one thing ran in my mind, I promise I would never  be the cause of even a single drop of her tears. And there I was, an Astronomer for a month for HER.

But all my dreams shattered when she chose someone else instead of me. But I cant stop loving her. So I did more even after I knew she's not mine. She started to involve in social services, an effort to form One Family under God or shall I say bring World Peace. She followed her man since he was active in such activities even before this. Hence I followed her to all the camps she attends and involve myself in social services just to stay near her. And I started to enjoy somehow that and got myself inner-peace since helping others is a noble thing to do. We always move together all the time and at times her man will come in between. That would be my heart-breaking moment yet I just face it just to stay with her all the time. I did all the things that I've never done in my life for charity purpose with her. Throughout that period I was not myself, I can feel that I was doing something against my will just to be with her. I became a Social worker for HER.

Finally, something beyond my expectation happened. Both of them(she and her man) caught into an accident when they were coming back from a vacation. They were severely injured. She was in coma for quite sometime. While he was badly injured and fighting for his life due to blunt trauma in liver. His whole liver was badly injured and he needed a transplant. My blood group matched  and fulfilled all the criteria for liver transplantation. At first I thought his death will open my door. Maybe his death will give me space to get back with her therefore I should let him die. But at one point, it strike my mind that he is her only happiness. If he dies she will suffer from the loss. I cant imagine her face when she woke up one day found out he is not alive anymore. I remembered my promise that I would never be the cause of even a single drop of her tears. Finally I donated half of my Liver in order to save the love of her life. It doesn't matter if I did not get a life with her, all I want is her to be happy always. I just want that smile remains forever in her life. Ever since then I just disappeared from her life and didn't see her again. Finally I became a Saint because of HER.

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Top 10 Largest Street Demonstrations in Malaysia Part I (Ranking 10-6)

10. BALING DEMONSTRATION

DATE : around 1971-1974

ORGANISER : university students.residents of Baling

AIM : against poverty(unsure)

STRENGTH :unsure of numbers. However, important  demonstration becasuse after this event University and University College Act 1971 (AUKU) was enforced to university students

9. ANTI- ISA

DATE : 1st August 2009

ORGANISER : Pakatan Rakyat (opposition coalition)

AIM : protest against unlawful arrest under ISA

STRENGTH : 20 000+

8. PROTES (  Protes Harga Minyak)

DATE : 13th JUNE 2008

ORGANISER :  Coalition of NGOs

AIM : protest against price hike for petrol and household items

STRENGTH : 30 000+

7. BLACK 14

DATE : 14TH APRIL 2008

ORGANISER : DS Anwar Ibrahim supporters

AIM:   to mark the expiry of Anwar Ibrahim ban from public office, a decade after he was sacked as deputy prime minister. 

STRENGTH :  35 000+

6. ANTI-PPSMI  (Perlaksanaan Pembelajaran Sains dan Matematik dalam Bahasa Inggeris)

DATE : 7th March 2009

ORGANISER : Gapena and former DBP stalwarts

AIM :  against the government’s idea of teaching Scence and Maths in English

STRENGTH :  unreliable source( some said 10 000-15 000, videos in youtube suggest more than 100 000,...)

Part 2 (Rank 5 to 1) is coming soon.

We are sorry that some of the figures could not be obtained from the internet.

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Colour and their lies

1.   1.  AUSTRALIA

-green and yellow in jersey but not in their flag

                          

     2. JAPAN

-known as “Blue Samurai”. However, Japan flag is white and red

3.        3. NEW ZELAND

“All blacks” but totally out of order.

       4. INDIA

-jersey is sky blue which we cannot find in the national flag of India

       5. GERMANY

-home jersey is white. Flag has no white colour

Colour and their lies. If you find other countries with such flaws, reply to us.

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Love is Blind?

LOVE. Is it honey for bear or bear for honey? Some describe it is as Left Out Vulnerable Event. While some interpret it as Largest Optimistic  Valentines Effect. When we are done with the ignition part or shall I say when love blooms everything seems to be unconditional. But when you slowly raise the gear to hit the top, all type flaws we come across. So when some wise man said Love is Blind, a question pops up into my mind "Are you sure?" If it's believed to be blind then why people could overVIEW it with different perceptions. Some bookworms who came to University just to hit consistent 4.0 will say love is just hormonal which we could control ourselves from falling in it, no one loves for real, it's just about heading to bed. While some would say love is divine and pure feelings with no indication of it's existence and no timeliness for it's destruction, how sweet. All the above answer is correct, yet it strikes a major question why Love is known to be blind and yet still fails.

Now talking about love is blind, lets see some scenarios which are inter-related. Before I proceed I would like to remind that love is seen in a smaller scope of inter-personal relationship for now. Do not relate with love towards mother,nature, country or any other elements as you like. First and foremost, the Adam hoods as they see their Eve will apparently fall in love and start to love whatever they see in them and their ultimate acts(including the way they sneeze, burp etc etc). Commencing themselves with whatever she's in to. She will be the most beautiful and gold hearted woman in the world. Now let see the after effects, soon when they are into relationship the guy's sense of belongingness raise to the max and concern every single thing she does. Some things will be different from what he expected before he get committed. Of course all the people have expectations you know. Ok the next phase will be FILL IN THE BLANKS syndrome. Where Mr.Adam will start to compare his Eve with another Eve who fulfills his expectations which his Eve failed to do so. Confused? Don't be. So he will start to fill in the blanks, all his expectations will be filled upon a another girl which seem to be fulfilling what his girlfriend failed to do. At the end of the day his girl friend will be the ugliest and worst woman in the world.

Second scenario, Miss Eve falls for every actions of Mr.Adam. He is a perfect gentleman. He is genuine and doesn't show fake self. When Eve has expectations.  All she expect is more Attention and Importance than others. It seems like 2 simple words, but it projects thousands of definitions in her dictionary. At the letterhead of her love story, a girl would say I'm ok with the way you are, I don't care if you don't call or text that often and I don't mind you mixing with other girls. Average of 3 months, a contradiction to the terms before occurs. The next Phase will be ANSWER MY QUESTIONS sessions. Why you didn't reply my text? Why didn't you call me yesterday? Or that girl is more important than ME? And then Mr. Adam recalls that this is not what she agreed upon before they get committed. So, now Mr.Adam will be seating at a bench and wonders where did I do wrong, If I'm possessive I am Dominant and Not Considerate person while If i'm not Possessive I'm not giving enough Attention and  Importance to her. What should I do? As it prolongs, he will be the most barbaric non understanding man for her.

Scenario No.1 has 3 possible conclusions. 1)Mr.Adam will try his best to show that the blame is on her 2) The act of nobleness where Mr.Adam will display as if she wont be happy with him since he is way more bad guy than she thinks he is and she deserve a better person 3) last but not least, he will try to irritate her till she come up with the keyword that revolves all the 3 possibilities, "BREAK UP". At the end of the day he wants to be the good guy. For the Scenario No.2 only one possible conclusion. "You are not the man I fall in love with, you've changed and I think this is it." So i wonder, if Love is Blind and they can love unconditionally why such conclusion occurs. If you check your friends Facebook status you can see this commonly happens among your friends....FSF( Facebook Status Flow) : 4 level = Single > In a Relationship >  It's complicated > Single  OR  5 level = Single  >  It's complicated > In a Relationship >  It's complicated > Single. 

Now the verdict says, When that wise man said "Love is Blind" he was right!! But he forgot the additional fact that "Love is Blind But Lovers have Visions". Basically there are two implicit meanings which we have to understand here, where "Lovers have Visions" means those lovers see things with their eyes/mind rather than heart. Everything is about tangible things around them and best part is, it spots differences more than common things among them. And the other meaning is that "Visions" can be best replaced with Future EXPECTATIONS. So as you can see Love is always blind, that is why when you first fall in love you didn't see any flaws or defects in that person since it involves heart. As it gets deeper there is a battle between Heart and Mind which mostly Mind will take control. That's when Lovers starts to have expectations towards each other and creates conditional love on each other. So kill that EXPECTATIONS and practice ACCEPTATION. Because love is not about EXPECTING, it's about ACCEPTING. Stop looking at the differences and start finding the common things you people share. If the Adam in 1st scenario accepted Eve the way she is, she will still the be the most beautiful and gold hearted woman in the world for him, vice versa for 2nd scenario Adam will still remain as perfect genuine gentleman.

To put in the nutshell, those who felt the bright side of it will see it as Honey for Bear. In addition, those who went through hell will say it is  Bear for Honey. So don't test the Subjectivity and start to love unconditionally. The amazing thing is that even a Penguin chooses a mate, a best mate and they stay together for life. But whats wrong with us humans? Remember "Love is Blind, but Lovers have Visions"

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Malaysia ranked world’s 10th largest consumer of alcohol! Proud of it?

 

On May 23rd the NST have published that Malaysia ranked world’s 10th largest consumer of alcohol. This is something to be proud of my friends? I’m not saying this is solely contributed by the Indian and Chinese community only but ALL, I repeat ALL. I would like to change this negative achievement of us therefore I want to start from home which is my community. Here I would like to share the effects of Alcoholism. There are many and varied. Let us consider them by the various people and groups of people they can affect:

Individuals:-

Emotionally – alcoholism numbs the feelings we have and makes it so that we self-medicate any time we start to get sad, angry, or scared in any way. We stunt any emotional growth or progress that might be made were we to be sober instead.

Socially – alcoholism fixed my anxiety at first, but eventually I drank in isolation–afraid to venture out into public because I was such a madman. I could only seek out other hard core alcoholics and drug addicts that consumed like I did.

Spiritually – alcoholism is like trying to find God while running on a hamster wheel. We live in fear and abandon our hopes and prayers we might have once had.

Physically - The physical effects of alcoholism are well documented and there is a high morbidity rate. Most say that the average alcoholic that continues to drink will die something like 22 to 36 years ahead of their time (depending on which data you look at). This is complicated because most alcoholics also smoke cigarettes and some abuse other substances as well, which also affect their health. Those who do recover from alcoholism will sometimes quit smoking, or continue to smoke, so mortality rates can become very confusing when trying to look at things like this.

Mentally - “water on the brain.” Yes, a lifetime of drinking does in fact turn your brain into mush eventually. This is well documented as well.

Families:-

Alienates children – kids take it the hardest, because they don’t know if the “switch has been flipped or not” with their alcoholic parent. Living this way has a negative effect on grades, social skills, and just about every other aspect of a child’s life.

Perpetuates abuse – well known and well documented. What might be understated is the amount of verbal abuse that is simply “put up with.”

Divorce!!!!

Worse than divorce in some cases – the family holds together despite the dysfunction and potentially passes the disease on to others. Consider that children of an alcoholic parent are 4 times more likely to become alcoholics themselves.

For young addicts and alcoholics, they have proven that group therapy is worse than no therapy at all, but family therapy has shown some degree of promise. These points to the fact that addiction is a family disease and needs to be treated as such in most cases.

So, please think twice for the betterment of our country. Drink wisely, not wastefully!!

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10 Sebab Ke Stadium Bukit Jalil

28hb. Julai 2011 bersamaan hari Khamis, perlawanan bola sepak antara Malaysia dengan Singapura akan berlangsung di Stadium Bukit Jalil. Perlawanan ini adalah perlawanan kedua kelayakan Piala Dunia Brazil 2014. Perlawanan pertama di Singapura akan berlangsung pada 23hb. Julai di Singapura.

bhengbros akan mengulas 10 sebab mengapa kita perlu ke Std. Bukit Jalil pada 28hb. Julai 2011.

1.  1.  Sudah lama prestasi pasukan bola sepak kita merundum. Kini, kita berada di tahap yang boleh membanggakan. Oleh itu, tanggungjawab kita sebagai rakyat untuk memberikan sokangan padu kepada pasukan Negara.

2.  2.  Singapura dan Malaysia merupakan “rivals” seperti Man Utd dan Liverpool dalam Liga Perdana Inggeris. Sejak dari dulu lagi, Malaysia dan Singapura memang ada sedikit perbalahan (kontrak air, pulau batu putih, ekonomi)

3.  3. Tiket hanya rm20 bagi tempat duduk biasa. (murah tuu beb)- harap FAM tak naikkan harga tiket

4.  4.  Jika Malaysia menang, kita akan layak ke “grouping phase”. Bermakna, semakin menghampiri melayakkan diri buat kali pertama ke kejohanan Piala Dunia

5.  5.  Jika menentang kelab-kelab luar negara seperti Liverpool, Arsenal, dan Chelsea boleh menarik ramai penyokong ke stadium, mengapa apabila pemain negara kita bermain, kita hanya hendak menonton di televisyen sahaja?  Lagipun, tiket paling murah perlawanan menentang kelab luar ialah rm58!! (sanggup bayar jugak tuu..)

6.  6.  Ini adalah perlawanan terakhir sebelum bulan Ramadan (dijangka jatuh pada 1hb. Ogos).  Selepas itu, mungkin kita akan banyak habiskan masa berbuka bersama keluarga, teman hati,kwn2….

7.  7. Suasana di stadium pasti memberikan satu pengalaman yang tidak dapat dilupakan, lebih-lebih lagi menentang “rivals”

8.  8. Kita tidak mempunyai pemain import. Negara-negara lain di rantau Asia Tenggara rata-rata menggunakan tenaga pemain import. Skuad kita kesemuanya pemain tempatan termasuk jurulatih. “PROUD OF IT”

9.  9. Tidak lama lagi kita akan menyambut Hari Kemerdekaan. Oleh sebab itu, tunjukkan semangat patriotik. Kita mulakan dengan perlawanan ini. Tunjukkan kepada mereka yang kata kita tidak patriotik.

1  10. Sebab terakhir adalah sebab bhengbros dah “review” dan menggesa anda semua hadir ke stadium. Marilah ramai-ramai ke Std. Bukit Jalil (hargai lah sket usaha saya ea..)

Bagi mereka yang berminat untuk membuat tempahan tiket secara on-line, sila ke http://www.tickethotline.com.my/

THIS IS OUR LAND,

THIS IS OUR TEAM.

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Zaman Kebangkitan Bola Sepak Malaysia

Sudah lama saya, sebagai peminat bola sepak Negara menantikan kebangkitan bola sepak Negara. Kini, saya boleh dengan bangga mendabik dada dan mengatakan “inilah zaman kebangkitan bola sepak Negara”

Sejak Datuk K. Rajagoapal mengambil alih sebagai jurulatih, skuad bola sepak Negara,saya boleh katakan telah lebih matang dan mampu memberikan persembahan tebaik. Selepas membawa pasukan Harimau Malaya memenangi pingat emas dalam Sukan SEA 2009 dan Piala AFF Suzuki 2010, pasukan Negara boleh dikatakan berada dalam prestasi tebaik dalam tempoh 20 tahun.

Jika kita imbau kembali zaman kegemiliangan pasukan bola sepak Negara ketika Allahyarham Dato' Mokhtar Dahari dan rakan-rakan, kita merupakan antara pasukan yang digeruni dan pasukan yang ingin dikalahkan. Namun demikian, setelah sekian lama pasukan bola sepak kita merundum prestasinya, kini kita kembali semula di landasan yang betul.

Pasukan yang dahulunya di belakang Malaysia, seperti  Jepun dan Korea Selatan sudah menjejaki kaki ke kejohanan Piala Dunia. Kita bila pula? Kini, pasukan bola sepak kita sudah menunjukkan prestasi yang membanggakan, oleh itu, adalah tanggungjawab kita sebagai rakyat untuk datang ke stadium dan memberikan sokongan kepada anak-anak muda kita yang mengibarkan Jalur Gemilang di persada antarabangsa.

Ingin saya ulas tentang pemain skuad Negara. Bermula dengan penjaga gol kita, Mohd Sharbinee Allawee Ramli.  Beliau tidak bersama skuad Negara di Piala AFF Suzuki kerana kecederaaan. Beliau merupakan antara pemain yang bermain mati-matian semasa melawan Taiwan tempoh hari dengan melakukan beberapa “stunning saves” termasuk 1 penalti.

                                               

Di pertahanan, Aidil Zafuan boleh dikatakan pemain pertahanan yang terbaik di Negara ini. Dengan keupayaan fizikal yang baik, pertahanan yang cekal serta boleh melakukan jaringan gol dengan sepakan percuma dan tandukkan daripada sepakan penjuru, melabelkan beliau sebagai pemain serba boleh.

                                                               

Di bahagian tengah, adalah kesalahan besar jika saya tidak mengulas ketua pasukan Negara , Mohd. Safiq Rahim.  Pemain kelahiran Negeri  Sembilan yang bermain untuk pasukan Selangor ini, mempunyai kebolehan luar biasa. Kawalan yang mantap, hantaran tepat, seta boleh melakuan jaringan melalui sepakan percuma. Anda tidak percaya? Lihat sendiri jaringan yang dilakukan ketika menentang Taiwan dan Liverpool. “Top class free kick”, kata pengulas luar negara             

                  

                                                    

Safee Sali merupakan penyerang terbaik yang Negara miliki pada zaman kini. Namun terlalu awal untuk membandingkan belaiu dengan Allahyarham Dato' Mokhtar Dahari. Fizikal yang kuat, ketepatan melakukan cubaan, larian deras serta “finishing” yang baik. Kini, menimba pengalaman di Indonesia bersama pasukan Pelita Jaya. Sebaik sahaja nama beliau disebut di stadium, sorakan penyokong pasti menyusul.  bhengbros menggelar beliau sebagai"Badak Sumbu Malysia"

                                                      

Datanglah beramai-ramai ke stadium untuk menyokong pasukan Negara . Sokongan anda, inspirasi untuk anak-anak muda kita. Perlawanan timbang balik untuk kelayakan Piala Dunia 2014 Brazil di mana pasukan negara menentang Singapura akan diadakan di Stadium Bukit Jalil pada 28 Julai 2011 pada hari Khamis. bhengbors menantikan kehadiran puluhan ribu rakyat Malaysia membanjiri stadium. Ayuh!

THIS IS OUR LAND,

THIS IS OUR TEAM.

Jangan lupa saksikan perlawanan kelayakan PIALA DUNIA 2014 antara Singapura vs MALAYSIA SIARAN LANGSUNG di

-Astro Arena 7.00 malam
-RTM - Radio Televisyen Malaysia TV2 7.20 malam

Dan siaran langsung menerusi RADIO!!!
-ERA FM & ERA TV jam 7.00 malam..

Selamat berjuang HARIMAU MALAYA!!!!

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What is Google +?

Google+ is the latest social media innovation for staying more connected & having more control of your information. It makes your life easier by adding some new ways of filtering the information you receive as well as the information you share.
It’s all part of the Google+ Project which obviously includes the thought of Google +1 which was already released.

 

What is Google+?

Google+ is actually a series of tools to help you stay connected with the people you care about and it includes a suite of comprehensive social tools to make your life easier and they’re called Circles, Hangouts, Huddle, & Sparks.

Google+ Circles

One of the really powerful things about the Google plus project is its ability to manage your social circle. One of the challenges with Facebook is that anyone your friends with can see anything you put on your wall. So it’s almost an all or nothing kind of thing.
The problem with this, is that in reality you share different kinds of information with the many different social circles in which you travel. It’s all about the way we relate to people. In the real world you relate different kinds of information to your family that you do your friends or coworkers.
The bottom line is you want to share the right information with the right people, and make it very easy to do so. Google’s website says “Circles make it easy to put your friends from Saturday night in one circle, your parents in another, and your boss in a circle by himself – just like real life”.

Google+ Hangouts

One of the biggest things on the horizon for many social media companies is the ability to connect with people via video. Hangouts is where that happens on Google+. This one feature alone will blow most people away, as you will now be able to hang out with up to 10 of your friends in a video chat room… Where they have added more value is that they made it extremely easy to do this, so you don’t have to be a ‘geek’.
So gone are the days of endlessly texting back and forth. Now you can let your buddies know you’re hanging out and they can drop by and chat with you face-to-face up to 10 at a time.

Google+ Sparks

Everyone of us today is suffering from information overload. Many of us receive 100 or more e-mails every single day. It all gets kind of overloading. Google+ Sparks is sort of like your personal assistant who sits through all of your incoming article and video feeds online so you really only get the information you wanted to watch read or share.

Google+ Huddle

Texting has always been an amazing way to interact with busy people, but there’s a problem when you’re trying to communicate with multiple people at the same time. It gets very hectic texting back and forth several people at a time trying to make sure everybody stays up to date.
Huddle is the Google+ answer to keeping everyone in the loop via text. If you’re trying to get six friends to decide on which movie to watch, huddle groups all those conversations into one chat on one page and you can do it directly from your Android or iPhone.

Google+ Instant Upload

We all love to take pictures on our phone. It’s really an amazing convenience when you consider that you rarely have your camera with you at the right moment, but you almost always have your phone to take a quick picture.
Where many of us are challenged is when it comes to being able to take those photos off of our phone and share them with other people. For many it’s a technical nightmare or at the least it isn’t any fun. When I worked in tech support for one of the major cell phone companies, i can tell you that I took lots of calls from very frustrated customers who couldn’t figure out how to get the pictures off of their phone into their computer.
Instant upload gives you an incredibly easy way to share your photos and videos to your own private Google+ album. Then you just decide which circles to share with. Can everyone say “EASY EASY EASY”? Doesn’t that feel good?
Final Thoughts
Google+ represents some of the latest ways that Google is going social. But it’s not just about adding another “Me To” kind of social network. They are truly innovating the way it all works and making our lives easier. To me it represents many of the reasons Google owns the internet world. They deliver what people want and they make it easy to do.

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By Joe Shaw in  http://familybusinesstips.com

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The 2012 Illusion

There has been many articles and news on 2012. I believe there is room for improvement for 2012 for better understanding for all of us. I believe there is something people failed to look at 2012. The mastermind of 2012 is money. People are getting greedier. They have found ways to gather this money. They say and they believe with money come great power. Thus they are willing to do anything for this money.

Let’s start with simple thinking. I want you to imagine a world without money. Take out the money from your daily life and from everyone. Think that money never existed. Can you imagine that? I am sure most of us can’t do that. All this while we were cracking our head and busting our ass for this money. Now, when we take out the money we feel so void and pointless. I am sure you had a blank and black screen on your head. We were unable to comprehend a world without money. Why?

We were made to believe money is important and almost it’s everything. We were brought in such manner since we were young. We were told to study hard and get ourselves into college; start working and earn. The capitalist created such illusion and we are caught in the illusion. It’s like the movie Inception, we are all in the Limbo where we failed to identify the reality.

That is 2012. There will be a lot of news, rumors, articles and we will get caught and will suffer in a Limbo. 2012 is all about identifying the truth. Even I am writing this article I am not sure whether I am still in the illusion. Everything is done for a purpose and I can tell the propaganda of the superpowers of the world is for money. How to identify the truth and the lie? I have no answer for that. I am still unable distinguish. Only the mind which finds the inner peace will be able move out of the 2012 Limbo. 2012 is not the end of the world but merely capitalist propaganda for more money. The world never dies; Mother Nature will always find its way to survive. Start finding yours now.

You may want to read this article as well - Is it 2012?

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